Ho fetoha ho thoe ke boitšoaro bo sa lumellaneng le meeli ea tloaelo e amohelehang ka kakaretso. Bohlokoa ba ho thibela boitšoaro bo bobe ba bacha bo na le taba ea hore hangata boitšoaro bona bo ka ba kotsi ho ba bang feela, empa le ho bana ba lilemong tsa bocha. Boitsoaro bo hlephileng boa senya, bo thibela ho kena ha batho ba tloaelehileng sechabeng, ho ama maikutlo a bacha ho bona le ho ho sebelisana le litho tse ling tsa sechaba.
Mathata a thibelo ea boitšoaro bo hlephileng
Bohlokoa ba ho thibela boitšoaro bo hlephileng bo amahanngoa, pele ho tsohle, ka likamano tse tobileng tsa boitšoaro bo hlephileng ba bacha le tlōlo ea molao sechabeng: ha ho boleloa hore boitšoaro bo senyang bana le bacha, bo phahamisa mokhoa oa bona oa ho etsa tlōlo ea molao.
Lenaneo la ho thibela boitšoaro bo hlephileng ba bacha bo lokela ho thusa bana ho theha boemong bo nepahetseng ba ho ba le bokhoni ba sechabeng le kelellong. Bacha ba tlameha ho utloisisa meeli ea se lumelloang le ho khetholla ka ho hlaka pakeng tsa litsela tsa ho rarolla mathata a bona a bohlokoa.
Mekhoa ea ho thibela boitšoaro bo hlephileng e kenyelletsa:
- koetliso ea kelello;
- lipuo tsa thuto, lipuo;
- mananeo a thuto.
Lenaneo leha e le lefe la ho thibela kelello ea boitšoaro bo hlephileng ho na le mekhahlelo e 'maloa e kholo, har'a eona:
- Thibelo ea ho itšetleha ka kelello.
- Ho theha boikutlo ba boikutlo bo nepahetseng le boikutlo bo nepahetseng "Ke-nahana".
- Thibelo ea bokooa ba thobalano.
Ho thibela mekhoa ea boipheliso ea sechaba le thuto ho thusa bacha ho ithuta ho rarolla mathata a bona ka mekhoa e metle le mekhoa e amohelehang.
Ho itšetlehile ka boemo ba kotsi e bakoang ke lithahasello tsa sechaba, lihlopha kapa batho ba khetholla mefuta e mengata ea boitšoaro bo sa lokelang:
- e senyang, e lematsang mocha feela - masochism, bokello, joalo-joalo;
- mekhatlo e mengata ea sechaba (lelapa, metsoalle, baahelani) - ho lemalla lithethefatsi, joala, joalo-joalo;
- e seng molaong, e leng tlōlo ea litekanyetso tsa molao tsa boitšoaro sechabeng - bosolism, ho hapa thepa, polao, joalo-joalo.
Mekhoa ea ho thibela boitšoaro bo hlephileng
Ho thibela boitšoaro bo sa lokelang, mekhoa e latelang e sebelisoa:
- ho hlokomela ts'ireletso ea lichelete ea bana le malapa a bona;
- mokhatlo oa boikhathollo bakeng sa bacha. Ka nako e ts'oanang, ho hlophisa boikhathollo bakeng sa bana le bacha ba lokela ho ba boemong bo nepahetseng - ho ea ka litlhoko tsa linako, e le hore e thahasellise bana haholo;
- ho khanna lithuto le mananeo a khothalletsang thuto ea bacha le ho hanyetsa bacha ba khahlanong le joala, ho tsuba le tšebeliso ea lithethefatsi tse ling;
- ho ts'ehetsa bophelo bo botle ba bophelo, thibelo ea ho phatlalatsa joala, lihlahisoa tsa koae.
Methati ea thibelo ea boitšoaro bo hlephileng e lokela ho koahela likarolo tsohle tsa baahi le mekhatlo eohle ea sechaba. Ntle le ts'ebetso e hlophisitsoeng, e felletseng, ho ke ke ha khoneha ho finyella liphello tse ntle tse sa feleng
Mekhoa le mekhoa ea thibelo e lokela ho lumellana le pontšo ea liphatlalatso tsa ho hloka.
Ntho ea bohlokoa haholo bakeng sa ho thibela boitšoaro bo sa rateheng ke tloaelo, ho tšepa likamano le batsoali. Ho etsahala hore bacha ba bonahatsa boitšoaro bo hlephileng feela maemong a itseng - lapeng feela, sekolong kapa le metsoalle feela. Ke habohlokoa hore batsoali ba batle kamano e ntle le ngoana oa bona - mocha o lokela ho utloisisa hore le haeba a entse phoso, batsoali ba hae ba ke ke ba mo tlohela, a ka lula a itšetlehile ka tšehetso le thuso ea lelapa la hae. Ke ka tsela ena feela u ka kholisehang hore ha mathata a hlaha mocha a qala ho batla thuso ho batsoali ba hae.